January 19th and 20th
We
have had a busy couple of days mostly in the Pachaikili Centre, as we wanted to
look at all the play materials to see what needed to be repaired, what thrown
out, and what needed to re-stocked. When we went in yesterday we found that
Sekar was there, with a young girl student from a Business Management course in
Vellore. Sekar had her observing and recording all that Rani (who is care-taker
for the elderly) did during the morning, as some sort of task management
exercise (sorry, not my area of expertise, can’t be more specific!)
Playing with a new basket ball hoop
I
was able to give the teachers the photo book which I made last March of our day
at the park, last January. Unfortunately it had never arrived at Padmini’s
address so I had another one made and sent to Ruth’s address in England and she
had brought it out with her. The teachers and then the children were all
absolutely delighted with the book and I’m hoping it will become a favourite
for them to browse.
Beautiful Pongal pot and sugar cane decoration on the floor of the centre
Children enjoying the book of their outing and calling out 'Tata' to grandad Andy as he arrived to see them
Just
after this a rather loud woman appeared and the children were lined up to see
her. She turned out to be the local balwadi teacher and she comes at this time
each year (Jan 17th is the official date) to see all the children in
the village and to give them their anti-polio drops. Once done, she marks their
small finger nail with an indelible marker pen! Some children had been absent
and missed their Vitamin A drops on September 9th, so she caught up
with them.
In
the afternoon after a lunch which they
had to stretch to feed us, because Padmini had never received my text saying
that we would be coming to the centre that day, Sekar returned with Joseph on
his pillion, and we were able to have a meeting in the small room whilst the
children and teachers used the larger room. As always Sekar was reassuring
about tasks that needed still to be done and with which he would give us a
hand, e.g ordering toys and a camera ( to be used to record children’s progress); making sure that a hand rail is fitted for
access to the centre for the elderly;
trying to do something about Rani, who doesn’t really do much to occupy the elderly, but
instead is always helping with cooking and getting them to help also. He is
going to talk to Rakesh about organising a training day for all the caretakers
for the elderly and I asked if he could tell Rakesh about the success of the
parachute and about the possibilities of art actitivities.
Elders lending a hand with the children in the sandpit
We
asked for clarification about how the account for the centre is managed. The
women from the SHG put in a request to RUHSA for what is needed for the
following month, according to how many working days in that month. The money
goes into their account in the bank and they withdraw it weekly. The three
Pachaikili paid staff ie two teachers and ayah had at last yesterday received
their Christmas annual bonus of one month’s salary. This is a good month late,
due to inefficient systems in RUHSA. Immediately of course the other staff
members ie the care-taker for elderly, Rani, and the two SHG women who cook for
the elderly, knew about these bonuses (which we had negotiated during our last
visit in Jan 2015, after the difficult business of the sari gifting problem).
Rani was asking us straight away why they should not get a bonus. This is a
difficult matter because Rani is employed under exactly the same terms as the
other care-takers for the elderly and the SHG women volunteers similarly. All
that they earn is their daily payment for doing the cooking, but Joseph pointed
out that they also have to budget for the food and that in recent years the
cost of food has rocketed. Nonetheless the women in our group have never
lowered the standard of food on offer and our elders receive egg twice a week
and chicken once a week, which is much more than at the other centres and
therefore probably means that our women are subsidising the meals out of their
own daily payment. How we would love to give them something as a thank you, if
not a proper bonus, but we know after last year’s problems with thank-you gifts
that we just cannot do this.
Today,
20th Jan we arrived early at the centre as the task of investigating
materials and equipment had barely been started yesterday and I was anxious to
get it done asap. The team were brilliant and we got every cupboard sorted and
cleaned out by lunch time. I think that in this culture people do not have
pristine homes, but tend to live with a level of dust and of disorder, because
they don’t have much space and they are usually quite crowded in their homes.
Thus, although I know our teachers are very careful with the play materials,
the cupboards were in quite a muddle and certainly needed the spring (Pongal)
clean which we gave them this morning. When I said to Pam that I think I need
to talk to them on Saturday at the training day about setting aside a regular
time to tidy and clean equipment, Pam suggested that perhaps the elderly might
help with this.
Rani
was working on her own today- or with only Boona to help- because Padmini has
had to go to hospital because her father has been taken ill with a fever and
very low blood pressure. When it came to doing her small group (who were using
the modelling clay we brought over) she just set the other group, whom Padmini
would have been supervising, to play in the sandpit. As I walked by I realised
that they had no toys to play with in the sand, so I gave them all rakes and
spades and cups and then started to fetch them water in a jug from the kitchen,
so that they could make the sand wetter. It was hilarious because one little
girl then wanted more, so asked me for ‘ kunjum tannee, Ayah’ ie a small amount
of water Ayah!’ Since I was performing an ayah’s role, I must be called ayah!
Yesterday we had all been called ‘Partee’ and ‘Tata’ as we arrived, ie Granny
and Grandad! Then as I was supposed still to be involved in the big clean-up
going on next door, I asked two of the elderly women if they would play with the
children and they came happily to sit in the sand with them and one took over
fetching the water. Ooh I thought, if I was here for a few weeks more I could
get these elders involved daily doing different things with the children and of
course both age groups would love it.
One of the elderly women pouring water for the children in the sandpit
Meanwhile
Balaji had appeared to see us because he has to leave tonight to go to Chennai
for a month’s working. He is very sad that he won’t see us again now before we
leave and Pam set him to helping us to try to stop him from being upset. We had
realised we needed more plastic trays for the toys and Balaji offered to take
Pam on his motorbike to buy them and some new items for water play such as
jugs, funnels and sieves. We are probably (definitely) breaking RUHSA rules
doing this, but I decided that since RUHSA rules can mean that things just don’t
get done (e.g new wheels for the wooden vehicles, asked for last Jan, still not
obtained!) we were going to go ahead and be damned. Well, hopefully not... Off
went Pam, delighted, as many decades ago she was a biker girl! She returned an
hour later triumphant with all that we needed and having had a few adventures
along the way (of course!) She had had ‘two small coffees’ at one person’s shop
and at other places been given free diaries (one of which featured a full
colour page of Donald Trump!!) She said they was precious little chance of her
expedition being kept quiet since the whole of KVK must now know where she’d
been and what she’d bought- of course!
Weighing and measuring the elderly!
Just
after lunch someone arrived – from RUHSA I presume- with some weighing scales
and Rani (teacher) proceeded to weigh each of the elderly people and then to
measure their height. These checks are done six monthly she told me. Mind you Andy stood against the mark which is supposed to indicate on the wall where 6ft is, and he was several inches below it, so I fear the measurements are fairly approximate.
We
left after a hard morning of work but a very satisfying one and the play centre
now feels much better organised already. On the way home we called in to say
our farewells to Balaji and to wish him well for his work in Chennai and for
when the baby is born in May. I have given him strict instructions about
informing us immediately the baby arrives and bless him, he checked what time
would be ok to phone me, ie when it would not be the middle of the night in
France.
Wow! Hard work but what a lot you four have done in two days. Love the image of biker woman taking the 'bypass' route to make purchases. The sieves and jugs just fell in er lap eh? What a shame about your book but lovely to see them enjoying it. Brilliant timing ready for this year's trip. Imagine the delight receiving the bonus, did you ever get to see the saris? Hard to witness the disappointment of the elderly staff team, good point about rising costs of food and guess in your FOV role this could be fed back, wonder if it applies to other centres? Can imagine how hard it was for Balaji (and you all), happier times saying goodbye this time. Just looking through blog again, and had a thought that tidying up the cupboards is a great way to rediscover forgotten resources. Mixing water and sand with the elderly in charge, you upstart, havn't lost your touch Ayah Whittingham! Hope Padimin's Father is recovering. Xx
ReplyDeleteIt has been very satisfying Jude as you say, getting to the bottom of the cupboards and giving things a good fettle. I did think that as I was fetching stuff and water to make the sand more interesting ie, the old nursery teacher lives! Wonderful that little girl just automatically calling me ayah! We have indeed seen the saris, as they have brought them in one by one to show us. They are quite nice but Padmini reckons worth about Rs400, which Andy thinks is about half what we left for them! She brought out the ones we bought for them the previous visit, when they came to Vellore with us, and pointed out how much nicer they were. Will def be feeding back to FOV, for sure. The centre we visited where they asked for more eggs they were only getting one per month, which will tell you how much they can afford, probably, if the SHG don't subsidise like ours undoubtedly do.
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Wendy Jestice
22/01/2016
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To: Sally Whittingham
19th/20th
What a couple of days , but oh so much achieved . Desperate hard work but must have felt so satisfying . I can see the teachers are doing a great job but just need input from you on a regular basis to freshen up their ideas and skills . As you say so much more involvement could be used from the elderly , and it does sound as if both generations love it .
I didn't know about the book . I wonder if there will be time this year to have another outing ?